leaving an abusive relationship and alone in malmö

Hi

I am in an abusive (psychological abuse) relationship - my sambo has been attending Kriscentrum, I do too for support.
We have decided to separate and it is being really difficult as he cannot control his anger, so it is very difficult to agree on things. I am worried about the 2 kids we have in common and how will they be affected. Right now he is still living at home. I have noone other than my therapist at Kriscentrum and a previous psychologist I saw Mödra- och barnhälsovårdsmottagning and we still have contact ad-hoc.
I do not need economic support, but I need help for me and my kids to go through the separation in the best way possible. Where can I turn to? In kriscentrum they have told me that statistically aggressions are the worst during a separation and I should look mostly for my kids and my safety.

What kind of help / support (not money) can I get? I am not sure what I am after, but anything that can ease this transition will be of help.

Thanks. Best regards.

someone alone in malmö
2018-01-30 11:36

Hi!

We are sorry to hear that you are in the situation that you are. We think that it is good that you and your partner already are in contact with Kriscentrum.
If you don’t think that the help you get from Kriscentrum is enough, you can contact social services where you live and discuss your situation and see what kind of help they can offer you and your children.

Maybe this site can be of help as well https://www.1177.se/Uppsala-lan/Tema/Barn-och-foraldrar/Familjeliv-och-… it can be translated to English.

For help with questions concerning living situation, custody of your children, you can contact Familjerätten I Malmö, you’ll find more information on their website https://malmo.se/Social---familjefragor/Familj-barn-och-ungdom/Familj-oc… At the bottom of the page you can translate the text.

Best regards

Soctanterna