Sambo abandoned me

My sambo of 10 years has recently abandoned me and our home. I just received my long term residency card which is tied to my sambo supporting me financially and living together in our apartment. I do not currently have employment in Sweden. My partner will not give me any money for food or supplies I need. He tells me that he is going to kick me out of "his" apartment if I don't pay him rent.

He did pay for the apartment and is the sole owner on the paperwork. Although, he bought the apartment for us to live in together and we both moved in at the same time as sambos. We have lived at this address for over 6 years.

He knows I don't have any source of income at this time. He is threatening to report me to the tax agency to have me deported from Sweden. I have tried to figure things out with him logically, but he refuses to talk with me and just wants me to leave although I have no where to go. He has been verbally abusive to me, said he hopes I die, and also has pushed and even slapped me.

His behaviour seems very unstable and I'm very concerned about his mental health. This is not like him to act this way towards me and I'm very concerned and frightened. He refuses to visit a doctor. This has all happened very suddenly.

He is staying with a friend, but says he has no responsibility towards me. I'm not sure if this is true, but like I said he agreed to support me when we applied for my long term permit to live in Sweden. My application was tied to his. The card I have says it's valid for 5 years, but can it be revoked?

He told me that he also reported me to our housing association and now I'll have to sign a separate lease to keep living here. I refused to sign anything. I feel that I'm being bullied by him. I don't know what any of my rights are in this situation.

I was told by a free legal service that I should have equal rights to the apartment, that he has to pay me half or sell it and we each get half the value, but I'm not sure if that is true.

Does he have any obligation to support me?

I really need some assistance and I'm not sure where to turn.

Lilac
2020-02-23 16:07

Hi!

You describe a difficult situation and we understand that you’re worried about the future. First of all we’re concerned about the violente and abussive behaviour that you describe. It’s against the swedish law to physically, mentally or ecnomically expose someone else to violence. The police and social service work with helping victims of violence.

You’re asking if your permit to stay in Sweden can be revoked if you and your partner decide to part. We can’t say what will happen in individual errends. That’s why we recommend you to contact the Migrationboard to get more information so you know how to proceed.

If you and your partner decide to seperate he’s not obliged to support you. If you where married and had kids, the situation would be different and you would both have to provide for eachother until the divorce was final.

It seems like you need to talk to someone about your economical situation. You can turn to the social service in your muncipal to apply for economic aid. If you’re living i Malmö you can call 040-34 10 00 to find out which social service to turn to.

We hope our answer will help you how to proceed.

Kind regards

Soctanterna